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Is Your Relationship Based on Equality? Model for Non-Violent Relationships NON-THREATENING BEHAVIOR RESPECT TRUST & SUPPORT HONESTY & ACCOUNTABILITY RESPONSIBLE PARENTING SHARED RESPONSIBILITY ECONOMIC PARTNERSHIP NEGOTIATION & FAIRNESS Seeking mutually satisfying resolutions to conflict Accepting change Being willing to compromise Talking and acting so that *[he] she feels safe and comfortable expressing *[himself] herself and doing things Listening to *[him] her nonjudgmentally Being emotionally affirming and understanding Valuing *[his] her opinions Supporting *[his] her goals in life Respecting [his] her right to [his] her own feelings, friends, activities, and opinions Accepting responsibility for self Acknowledging past use of violence Admitting being wrong Communicating openly and truthfully Sharing parental responsibilty Being a positive, nonviolent role model for the children Mutually agreeing on a fair distribution of work Making family decisions together Making money decisions together Making sure both partners benefit from financial arrangements
Is your relationship based on equality? Domestic Abuse Intervention Project V 202 East Superior Street V Duluth, Minnesota 55802 V 218/722-4134 Adapted by T EXAS COUNCIL ON FAMILY VIOLENCEP.O. Box 161810 V Austin, Texas 78716 V 512/794-1133 V Fax: 512/794-1199*Brackets [ ] indicate edits to the original document Do you have questions about our site, comments about our site or just need support? or by writing to us at: Serenity Quest - P.O. Box 2332 - West Covina, CA 91793-2332
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